FAQs for Prospective Parents
FAQs for Surrogates
1)Why do prospective parents
need my help?
There are several answers to this question. Some common reasons are that the
female partner may:
A. be over 40 years old.
B. not respond well to fertility drugs.
C. have undergone failed IVF attempts and/or unproductive egg retrievals.
D. not have ovaries.
E. have premature ovarian failure or lack of menstrual cycles.
F. have unexplained or secondary infertility.
OR
The prospective parent/s may be a single man or male couple who need
donated eggs to
achieve a pregnancy with a gestational surrogate.
2)How long will it take for me
to be matched?
Unfortunately, we can not determine when you will be matched. Ova the
Rainbow, Inc. will provide your profile to all prospective parents who
request it. If you are chosen, you will be notified immediately.
3)May I donate eggs if I have
never been pregnant?
Yes.
4)How many egg donations may I
do?
There is no legal limit but many clinics do instill their own rules
regarding number of donations and /or pregnancies achieved. Some clinics
limitations are following:
A. 3 pregnancy limit per donor. This rule does not apply
to your own pregnancies.
B. 6 donations per egg donor in her lifetime.
C. some clinics have no restrictions.
At Ova the Rainbow, Inc. we will facilitate 3
donations per egg donor only.
5)Do I have to abstain from
sexual intercourse?
Yes, you will be on medications that make you very fertile. We hope by
asking you to abstain that you will not become pregnant accidentally. We
suggest abstinence for the month prior to your retrieval which is the period
of time you will be on the medications. If you have specific questions
regarding this, please consult with the doctor who will be working with you
and your prospective parent/s.
6)Will I meet the prospective
parent/s?
Depending on the type of donation you choose, you may or may not meet the
prospective parents. Each arrangement is unique, if you want to meet the
prospective parents and they agree, then YES, you will meet. If you do not
wish to meet a prospective parent, you will never be asked to do so. You
determine what level of contact you feel comfortable with prior to being
profiled with our agency.
7)How long does the egg donation
process take?
Once you have been chosen by a prospective parent and agree
to work together, it takes 8-12 weeks to complete the screening process,
contracts, donation cycle, and undergo the retrieval procedure. The actual
cycle is usually completed within 6 weeks.
8)Will I know if my donation
contributed to a pregnancy?
If you wish to know the statistics regarding your donation please make sure
that Ova the Rainbow, Inc. staff is aware of your desire to know. We will
make every effort to give you the statistics. If you do not wish to know,
then we will not tell you. As policy, we will only disclose whether or not a
pregnancy was achieved, no mention of outcome.
If you feel you need more detailed information, please let our staff know
prior to signing contracts, so that we may discuss your wishes with the
prospective parent/s.
9)Do I have to take injections?
Yes, you will be taking daily injections for three weeks or longer. There
are other injections that may be required depending on which fertility
specialist you and your prospective parent/s cycle with. We advise egg
donors to expect to take approximately 50 injections per donation cycle.
10)Can you explain the process
in detail?
Yes. The following is a typically used cycle protocol, yours may vary
depending on which fertility specialist you are working with. Usually there
is a recipient cycling with the egg donor, an intended mother or a
surrogate. Both women then begin Lupron in order to get "in cycle" with each
other. The egg donor begins receiving daily injections of fertility
medications (Gonal-F, Follistim, Repronex, Pergonal, etc.) this helps mature
or ripen the follicles in her ovaries. These injections usually continue for
7-12 days. The egg donor will be monitored daily for several days prior to
the optimal day for the injection of a medication called HCG which prepares
the ovaries to release the mature follicles. When HCG is given the egg
retrieval is scheduled. During the procedure, the egg donor is put under
light anesthesia. A needle guided by ultrasound is passed through the top
wall of the egg donor's vagina, through her uterus, into her ovary, and
finally into the fluid-filled follicle. The follicles containing the eggs
are vacuumed out and the fluid is then given to the laboratory for
preparation and fertilization. This process may seem detailed but really is
quite simple, painless, and takes less than 30 minutes. The egg donor will
rest in the doctor's office while recovering from the anesthesia. She will
be able to leave 60-90 minutes after the procedure.
11)Will my expenses be covered?
Yes, your travel expenses , lost wages, and child care will be paid by your
prospective parents through Ova the Rainbow, Inc.
12)What is the average fee for a
first time donation?
The average fee for a first time donation is between $3,000-$5,000. Ova the
Rainbow, Inc. suggests a fee of $4,000 for a first time donation. You
determine your fee.
13)When will I receive my fee?
Since the fee is offered as a consideration for your commitment to the
process of the donation cycle, you will receive your fee after the retrieval
procedure is completed. Your fee is in trust with Ova the Rainbow, Inc. prior to
beginning medications. If at all possible, an Ova the Rainbow, Inc. staff
member will hand deliver it the day of your retrieval. If that is not
possible, you will receive a check via FedEX within two days.
If your question isn't answered here, please
contact us.
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